My philosophy for a happy life

I came across this video seeking for a little bit of motivation. I wanted to compalin about something that is going on in  my life. Then I thought of those who don't  have the voice of complaining and I called myself into order by going through YouTube to search for something meaningful to share with you.

I am fully motivated. I am left with thoughts that came to my mind while watching this wonderful video. I felt like sometimes when we complain we don't know why we do so because there are people who face more difficulties than we do. We'll complain about how long we walk home from school or work forgetting that there are people who would do anything to get a pair of legs. We'll complain about how "fat" we are when some need those extra kilos to survive. Or even complain about how our neighbours get rich when we get poorer but never think of doing anything productive with our lives.

Maybe we should complain about how much we complain to realise how irritating we are. No one has a perfect life but those who look perfect to those who think they are imperfect know how to smile when things are tough. Let us learn to appreciate  more and complain less. whenever you think of being negative to yourself think of what would happen if you didn't have what you are complaining about.

I am Paballo Seipei and I found a philosophy of a happy life.

We all face difficulties

When things go wrong, take time to be alone and just think.

Sometimes we go to sleep stressed out, not knowing what we are going to do the next day. Sometimes we don’t even wish to see the next day because things might be going so wrong that death seems beautiful. We face difficulties that seem like they can’t be fixed and don’t know where to start. But, we eventually take a sleep after a long time of thinking, leading to mind exhaustion. 

We think of ways to get through what we are facing and come up with decisions that we want to implement the next day. Some are lucky to wake up with a new view of life and some continue with their misery but the day comes and it has to be faced. What we need to learn is that time doesn’t stay still and wait for us to recover. We might be going through hell but time will pass and days will go. I just woke up realising that life is bigger than what we go through and life won’t feel sorry for us. So, let us not feel sorry for ourselves and do what needs to be done.

I am blessed to see another day and to realise that some people face more difficulties than I do; therefore I am taking each day as it comes. 

Good morning world, I am Paballo Seipei and I am taking each day as a blessing. #Peace

Top ten tips to being a good mother

Motherhood is quite a full time job and comes with a lot of responsibilities. Sometimes we think we are best at what we do until we get criticised by other mothers who think they are super mothers. So what are we to do to become good mothers to our kids? Follow these simple tips: 

1. Listen to our kids

2. Play with them

3. Be a big part of their daily activities

4. Give them balanced meals

5. Read with them

6.Teach them how to pray

7. Embrace their ideas right/ wrong

8. Download play cards, story books and rhymes  for them 

9. Have a good relationship with people around us

10. Teach them basic hygiene skills 

Children are simple beings and want simple things. Love is the simplest thing to give to a child. By implementing these simple tips, we are heading to having good relationships with them. Try them and enjoy the changes to come.